Let’s cut to the heart of it. You’re here because you’ve felt it—the sting of betrayal, the weight of loss, the frustration of doors slamming shut while others glide through.
You’ve screamed into the void, “Why me?” And the universe? It just echoes back, indifferent.
But here’s the raw truth: Life isn’t unfair. It’s unconcerned.
Myth of Fairness
You were taught fairness as a child. Share your toys. Wait your turn. Play by the rules, and life rewards you. But adulthood? It laughs at those rules. Promotions go to the undeserving. Love favors the careless. Good people suffer. Bad ones thrive.
You’re not wrong to feel cheated. But fairness is a human invention—a fragile idea we cling to because chaos terrifies us. Nature doesn’t do “fair.” Storms don’t spare the righteous. Fire doesn’t skip the kind-hearted. Life isn’t a courtroom; it’s a wild, untamed force.
So why keep demanding fairness from something that never promised it?
The Karma Trap
“Maybe it’s my past karma,” you think. “I must’ve done something to deserve this.” But let’s be real: Blaming karma is just another way to punish yourself. It’s spiritual self-flagellation.
Yes, actions have consequences. But obsessing over cosmic justice keeps you stuck in the rearview mirror. Life isn’t about balancing scales—it’s about burning through them.
Fantastic vs. Fair
Imagine two choices:
- A “fair” life—predictable, orderly, everyone gets the same.
- A fantastic life—wild, unpredictable, bursting with both agony and ecstasy.
Which would you pick?
Fairness is small. It’s limits. It’s playing safe. But fantastic? That’s aliveness. It’s diving into the unknown, tasting joy so sharp it cuts, sorrow so deep it transforms.
The problem isn’t life’s unfairness—it’s our addiction to control.
The Ego’s Spiritual Costume
Now, let’s talk about the real poison: spiritual ego.
You’ve seen it—people who swap designer labels for robes, trading “I’m richer” for “I’m enlightened.” They drop Sanskrit words like confetti, judge others for “not vibrating high enough,” and preach love while radiating superiority.
This isn’t spirituality. It’s ego in a costume.
True growth isn’t about feeling special. It’s about dissolving into the raw, messy truth of who you are—without the labels. You’re not “good” or “bad.” You’re human. Sometimes radiant. Sometimes petty. Always evolving.
Stop Keeping Score
- Kill the Judge
Stop grading life. A rainy day isn’t “unfair”—it’s rain. A breakup isn’t “punishment”—it’s an ending that makes space for a beginning. - Burn the Spiritual Rulebook
You don’t need mantras to be whole. You need courage to sit in the fire of your own existence. No jargon. No gurus. Just you, raw and real. - Choose Aliveness Over “Alignment”
Stop chasing “positive vibes only.” True growth happens in the storm. Grief cracks you open. Anger fuels change. Even jealousy? It shows you what you crave.
The Naked Truth
You want life to be fair? Then make it fair—for others. Fight injustice. Lift voices. Share your bread. But stop demanding fairness for yourself.
Because here’s the secret: The moment you stop keeping score, life stops feeling like a battle.
You’re not here to balance karma or earn gold stars. You’re here to burn bright—to laugh so hard it hurts, love so deep it scares you, and leave a mark that can’t be erased.
Fair? No.
But fantastic? Oh yes.
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