Let’s get one thing straight: You’re not a tree. You’re not a tiger. You’re not even a monkey (despite what some theories might say). You’re a human being. And that means one thing: You’re free.
But here’s the twist: That freedom? It’s not a gift. It’s a responsibility. And right now, you’re not owning it—you’re suffering it.
The Curse of Being Human
Think about it: A tiger doesn’t wake up wondering, “Am I a good tiger?” It doesn’t stress about becoming a house cat. It just is. It’s fixed. Predictable. Safe.
But you? You’re a walking question mark. One moment, you’re kind. The next, you’re cruel. One day, you’re inspired. The next, you’re lost. You’re not a being—you’re a becoming.
And that’s terrifying.
Why You’re Stuck in Stress Mode
You’re not suffering because life is hard. You’re suffering because you’re free.
- A tiger knows its role: hunt, eat, sleep, repeat.
- A tree knows its purpose: grow, photosynthesize, repeat.
But you? You’re drowning in possibilities. “Should I chase my passion or play it safe? Should I stay or leave? Should I speak up or stay quiet?”
So;
Freedom isn’t the problem
The Illusion of “Fixed”
You crave certainty. A roadmap. A guarantee that if you do X, you’ll get Y. But here’s the truth: Life doesn’t work that way.
You’re not a fixed entity. You’re a flux. A work in progress. A canvas waiting for your brushstrokes.
- One moment, you can be godlike.
- The next, you can be a brute.
The question isn’t “Who am I?” It’s “Who do I want to be?”
Mastering Your Mechanics
You’re not here to be human. You’re here to become human. And that requires understanding the mechanics of your existence.
- Your Mind
It’s not your boss. It’s a tool. Learn to use it, not be used by it. - Your Emotions
They’re not your identity. They’re weather patterns. Observe them. Don’t let them steer your ship. - Your Energy
It’s not infinite. Manage it. Channel it. Don’t waste it on drama.
When you master these mechanics, you stop suffering your freedom. You start living it.
Stop Drifting, Start Directing
You’re not a leaf blowing in the wind. You’re the wind.
Today, try this:
- Name Your Possibility
What version of yourself do you want to become? Write it down. - Own Your Flux
Stop apologizing for your contradictions. They’re proof you’re alive. - Take One Conscious Step
Not a leap. Just a step. Toward the person you’re becoming.
Remember: Freedom isn’t a burden. It’s a privilege.
The next time you feel overwhelmed by choice, whisper this to yourself: “I’m not stuck. I’m free. And I’m choosing to grow.”
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